Sarong Party Girl

Occasionally, I will read her blog and have recently increased the frequency due to her newfound “fame” in Singapore for showing her nipples on her blog. (She has removed the picture, but there are still many sexy but well-taken shots of her)

I find her to be very interesting… she is like Samantha from Sex and The City, totally comfortable with her sexuality. She doesn’t give a hoot about what others thought of her and did what she did because she really want to express herself, full stop.

In Asia, sex is still deems as “dirty” and a kind of taboo. Girls are supposed to be pure and pristine, we are not supposed to like sex. Girls, who enjoy sex, are sluts or whores. Even in Singapore, a rather westernize country; still frown upon at girls who just want to be true to themselves.

And the saddest part is that men do not suffer from the same disapproval. Men with “experience”, are deem as playboys, flirts or as a guy-friend said, “men with confidence” (MY ASS!!). But, what about women with “experience”? They are either in the “sluts”, “playthings” or “girls-to-have-fun-with-but-not-wife-material” categories.

And after marriage, these stupid men complain that their wives do not satisfy them sexually and engage in affairs with sexually aggressive females, who have no qualms to enjoy sex or, sadly, to break up marriages.

Ok, not ALL MEN are as such and I admit that I am generalizing. What I am trying to say here is that, women have needs too… and each of us have different levels of wants and needs. Why frown upon women who are comfortable with their needs? As long as, she is single, not a third party in any situations and practice safe sex.

I am happy to see that we have our very own Samantha. And it is about time that she appears.

You can check out her blog at: http://sarongpartygirl.blogspot.com/