Wednesday, February 11, 2009

I'm disappointed... ...

Sigh. I'm sure many of you have went through this: "to salvage or not to salvage a friendship" ...

After being friends for almost 20 years, I seriously wonder whether I'm being taken for granted or i'm just plain petty. Maybe my expectations are too high, maybe I'm disappointed that my love and friendship arent reciprocated.

It's just such a pity to give up a friendship of almost 20 yrs... yet, I can't simply just bottle up my frustrations and displeasures. Yet, at the same time, I cannot bring myself to confront the issue. (which is very, very unlike me)

The bestest friend is now an Alien.

3 comments:

airhole said...

i guess you are probably feeling 'pained' about this. How about keeping the friendship in the KIV folder?
Of course, i think u will have to work out what that really means also lah

averageeverydaysanepsychosupergoddess said...

im sorry u seem to have been battling this for a long time nw. and i guess u agreed when i told u its prob best not to confront.

mayb there is a life lesson to be learnt here - leave well enough alone.

D said...

to me it's relationship is like a game of tennis.. when you serve, you expect the ball to be returned once it reaches the other end.. a good game would have a smooth flow but if the ball does not come back. I think you are betta of going bowling or find a new partner