When I was a kid, I went to a kick-ass kindergarten where I spent most of the time playing. The school had a huge playground and a little pool for water-play. I remembered running and playing “catching” with my little friends, climbing the monkey bars, eating grass and later discovered that grass tasted rather bitter. We would have 20-30 minutes of free play at the playground every day and 5 children would be chosen each day to play at the pool.
Oh, the joy of being chosen to play at the pool was beyond words. We would actively participate in our classes to earn points so that we could play at the pool. The teachers were very encouraging and always prompted us to be good children and gave us stars to boost our “scores”.
When it was time for the water-play, we would put on our raincoat and little boots. We would eagerly take the basket of toys and trotted happily to the little pool while the other children looked at us in envy. The girls would usually pretend to be their mummies while bathing the little dolls. The boys would have little boats and pretended that they were the explorers of the world, a-la mini Christopher Columbus. The teachers will just keep an eye on us to ensure our safety and other than that, they did not interfere and the children had 20-30 minutes of uninterrupted free play.
I did not remember there was any homework nor did we spend much time doing worksheets. Instead, we had many hours of art and craft work, and I remembered there were days where we had to prepare our own snacks by making sandwiches and other days we had to clean the toilets. School was really fun and I looked forward to going to school everyday!
How many pre-school curretly are like my Kindergarten, I wonder? Can I still find such a pre-school without paying through my nose?
Beanie is only 1 year old, so I am still taking things easy. Whenever I am at home and as long as weather permits, I will bring her to the playgrounds near my flat or a quick swim at the public pool. Children needs sunshine to grow and it upsets me to see young children coop at in an air-conditioned room, doing worksheets instead of sliding down the slides, spinning themselves silly on the grass and playing catching with their friends.
I have friends who are sending their barely 20 months-old kids to enrichment classes to learn ABC. Seriously? You mean, as a parent, you cannot teach your 20 month old how to read the ABCs at home? Or some Shichida class where the tearchers flash fashcards at 8 months old babies. *shudder*
All parents want the best for their kids, but at what expense, we need to ask ourselves. Kids can only be kids once... please let them have their childhood.
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That was a really good childhood experience. Eton Schoolhouse is pretty much like that but it costs an arm and leg.
If this thing gets worse... I am gonna homeschool the Grandkids till it's time for P1.
beanie is going to do well by you!
I very much agree.. I remember my childhood full of games as well. As for preschool without having to pay through your nose - I agree too! They are more expensive than university!
Completely agree!!!
This was my biggest shock when I recently visited Singapore. As 'Tiger Mother' as I am, I think I am a watered down version from those back home. I shudder to imagine the lives of kids there.
I, even if it tires me out insanely, take Sophie out at least once a day, sometimes more. Just so she gets some physical activity, gets some fresh air, sun (whenever there's any), interaction with other kids and gets to laugh herself silly on the swings/slides at the playground. I think she benefits just from observing other (older) kids at the playground.
I am most proud when she figured out how to get down the slide on her own yesterday, compared to picking up another new word.
Don't get me wrong, I'm still 'Tiger Mother', I reckon. Except, I also believe in a balanced childhood where other areas of development (like sensory, social, emotional, motor etc) have equal importance.
Over and above everything, I just want Sophie to be happy and that, will guide my thinking and nurturing of little Sophie. I hope I succeed but only time will tell...
What's wrong with flashcards in infancy? hahah!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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